Another rant on Feminism, maybe?

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I remember when I first heard about this term. I didn’t knew what it meant so I googled it.

“Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social equality of sexes. ” – that’s the definition you will get in the first link. It was established to achieve equality of sexes or both sex not just females as it is considered to be believed today.

Surprisingly, very few people know the exact definition of feminism inspite of it being the most common trend in today’s world. But it’s not really surprising because we humans have a tendency to mold things the way we want them to be and not see it as they are.

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For what it was, this was started to empower women to be equal to men to give them equal rights, equal opportunities and equal freedom. But has it made any significance change?

What I see around me is still a male dominant world or better to say society dominant world where not just men rule but women ourselves help them be the king to our society.

I see one women berating the other women to be less than any men whether it’s our mothers, sisters, relative or just a neighborhood aunty.

I see a mother telling her daughter that something is wrong with them if you want to have sex. What they teach is sex is a sin for women.

Then why does sex becomes so important after marriage when you want your kids to have kids of their own then suddenly all these women are giving advises on how to Be a good wife and satisfy your husband. Why does these definitions change for us according to my marital status? Why is sex still not a sin for every women after her marriage? And it’s always a necessity for every male whether married or unmarried as far as they get to cheat on their partners in the name of being “not satisfied”.

This is one scenario which has always been a taboo for years and will be for God knows how long. But is it fair for a mother to tell her child to cut her hair so no boy can lust at her? How does my long hair attract male attention that’s how close it is as attractive to someone as breathing is!

No mom! My long hair is not a problem, the problem lies within you. The problem lies within every guy who rapes a girl. The problem lies within every society which thinks working late at night, wearing shorts clothes, expressing yourself on social media, going to a male friends house is not what a good girl should do! The problem lies within every person and their thinking. That problem lies within you too mom which forces you to judge every other girl, even your own daughter.

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Today when I went online I saw a picture, a picture of a beautiful free soul which I have always admired for being free. But what I saw next probably is the reason that I don’t see such souls anymore. All I saw on her pictures were comments of being a randi, attention seeker, someone who degrades the feminism and some even as far as “thank god, I don’t have a daughter”. Mam thank god that God never gave you a daughter because if he had; you would have murdered her soul along ago! As for what her these comments are for, is because she posted a seminude picture with just her undergarments to protect her image. All I did see today was a war very similar to the one engaged decades ago for women rights, the difference was just that the dates have shifted the methods have shifted but deep down we are still way too backward to accept a women for all her glory.

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In all these years the women have indeed been able to emerge in every field but we still fail to achieve our basic rights, the right to express, the right to demand, the right to freedom, the right to equality; and without any of these the feminism is always going to be misheard and misunderstood.

Someone had said “the repression of feminism has led to the decline of this planet, the re-emergence is going to be a dance to behold.”

It indeed will be…

 

 

 

The incident’s are taken from real life stories and nothing has been exaggerated or plotted. Definition from Wikipedia The pictures are taken from Google The instagram account belongs to saloni chopra (id: redheadwayfarer). A special token of appreciation to your post and your thinking which deserves to be recognized by every girl of this country and beyond

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Colourless World 

The smell of rain reminds me of fresh beginnings 

Every flower blossoms bright and cheerful

The seed grow up and up 

Away from its home

Reaching the sky

Trying to catch the sun

The sun shining brighter and brighter

So bright and so beautiful 
The sunshine fall on me 

Taking away the darkness of the moon

Keeping my fears at bay

But there comes the sunset and the fears

Darkness reminds me of all the things that could go wrong

The moon is out 

The wolves howling in joy 

The predators out in the night 

The nature sat silent and quiet

Listening and watching 

Waiting for its prey 

It reaches out 

Surrounds you till you can’t see can’t breathe 

It takes you away In a place far away 

The sun shines again 

But something is different 

What happened last night?

Isn’t it always the question

No one dare speaks

The darkness howles far away 

Once again overjoyed

Not even the rain can erase the past 

It washes away the cries

Leaving a colourless world behind

Once again to be robbed at night.

Will you ever be mine ?

The moon shining bright in the sky 
The sound of thunder send chills to my bones 

I lay awake at night 

Thinking what is it that makes me miss you more ?

Is it your love or is it me a hopeless romantic ?

Why is it so difficult to understand​ you ?

Why can’t I just be with you ?

Will it never change ?
I imagine the day you will come to see me 

I could be old and grey 

Waiting for u in my hopeless romantic way

I will remember the day u went away 

It all still in my mind 

Keeping me awake at nights 

Thinking and thinking

will you ever be mine ?

PERFECT BEING

AAre you one?

From birth to death we always hear people say what is right and what is wrong but do they know what they are talking about?

Isn’t it the same thing they heard from someone else ?

But do those people know what they are talking about?

Does anyone know what is right or wrong?

Can’t it be right for someone and wrong for someone else?

But who are we to judge?

Who are we tell them that they are not good enough ?

Are you good enough?

Maybe you are for someone but are you perfect for everyone?

Can you gurantee what you are saying is the truth?

Did you saw it yourself? What if what you saw is only half of what is true?

Did you hear it yourself? But what if what you heard is not what someone meant or is only the half story?

Did you ever asked yourself what you know is the complete truth?

Did you ever thought what would happen if you didn’t know the truth?

So many what if’s and so many questions.

But the biggest question- Who is a perfect being?

My only answer is EVERYONE.